[[ASIN:096797903X Don't Let Your Kids Kill You: A Guide for Parents of Drug and Alcohol Addicted Children]
READ THIS IF YOUR CHILD IS SUBSTANSE OBUSER. VERY HANDS-ON WITH CONCRETE SUGGESTIONS AND ADVICES.

This has been an amazingly helpful and encouraging book about an extremely discouraging situation. The author has been there, and does not sugar-coat the situation, but gives you a perspective that it took him years to acquire. Easily worth about 6 months of attending Al-Anon or Nar-Anon meetings. My sympathies to you parents who may be finding yourselves in the same sinking boat. It fortifies your need to make some hard choices.