This is a fascinating book and I eagerly bought it for both my husband and I. Kim's unique approach to this evergreen topic is wonderful! We both understood her points and I dare say that now we have a more profound and broad perspective on this crucial for every strong and happy relationship area.

The author has gathered the treasures of both ancient cultures and even modern science to provide this second to none presentation of desire, messaging, arousal, fantasy and "release". I am sure that the book will be also helpful to men to understand better the inner world and fantasies of women, which play an important role in their (sexual) life.

If you want a more technical and detailed manual on (oral) sex you may also consider her other book: "Satisfaction: The art of female orgasm". I am very happy that Catrall and her team of experts have dedicated so much time to cultural research with the only purpose to enrich the readers' culture, knowledge and insight with the very best the world and its history has to offer. I would like to highly recommend in addition to this book what my husband and I consider the men's sexual bible: "Scientifically guaranteed male multiple orgasms and ultimate sex" by Alan Ritz.

This book definately is for couples who are excited about exploring their sexuality with pleasuring each other. I would also highly recommended the best sex guide Sex and the perfect lover by Mabel Iam.