The author, David Givens, states that this book is a result of research he has conducted throughout the years on the subject of body language in romantic situations. However, much of the information is pretty repetitive of findings that are already published in this field. The 5 phases of courtship he identifies aren't unique. The latter half of the book is the best part - where Givens describes actions men and women can take to enhance their allure, and he even gives information on colors, scents, and jewelry that supposedly work well in attracting attention. Overall, I wasn't impressed with this book. Not recommended.

Dr. Givens presents us with a readable compendium of his research into non-verbal cues characterizing modern courtship. Although Givens rounds the bases on a number of topics, such as the importance of the face, the way & why we attract -- and why we are attracted to -- certain body types, as well as suggestions on how to remain together, the crux of the book is his discussion of the five phases of courtship: 1) Attracting Attention, 2) How to Read the Gleam in an Eye, 3) Exchanging Words, 4) The Language of Touch, and 5) Making Love.
At times, it is difficult to determine who the target audience is, especially when he juxtaposes scientific jargon and anthropoligical history with cue lists, anecdotes, & field notes --- this, however, shouldn't deter the would-be reader that shares Givens' perspective: "In courtship, knowledge is power. Knowing that gestures work better than words give you a clear advantage in finding a mate" (p.21).