i wish this book had come out years ago. spending my nuturing years in a single parent home, i knew nothing about the male specie. and of course all i thought i knew was idealistic garbage.

this book will teach you the TRUE nature of men. what they want, dont want, feel and even fear. it will teach you to interprete thier silence CORRECTLY and unveil the myths that even men have created around themselves. and since you learn all this, you will know how to relate the RIGHT way with men and destroy the lies the media pumps into our subconscious about who a real man is. in otherwords, you will be speaking the language of your man.

This book really touches on alot of subjects that we as Men need to examine within ourselves. It is also a tool that women can use to understand the men in their lives. I was truly blessed by reading this book and I find myself talking to others about some of the subject matter in it. Ironcially I as well as other guys I know are going through or have been through many of the topics in the book.

I love T.D. Jakes, he has such an insight into the lives of people and the things that we as christians need to work on besides just trying to stay saved and sanctified. There are alot of men struggling internally out there and the women in their lives have no clue as to what is going on or how we feel about things. Too often it is stated that men don't understand women, well that saying can also be reversed. In order for us to move on from our past we must understand it, why it happened, how it happened, how to overcome it, etc. This book is a tool for those who really want to understand somethings going on in their lives, or plaguing their past. This book is truly a blessing! Thank you T.D. Jakes