The construction of the book through emails linked by her narrative is very effective. Much of the dialog, with its timeliness and spontaneity, could not have happened without email. The breaks in the flow this created, for other people's comfort and suggestions about love, and loss, was very effective for the subject of this book. For the reader, they created good opportunities for ideas to occur, and for my thoughts to veer off into the relationships between what Jane Bay endured and described as she traveled through the love-growth and grieving journeys with her daughter, and situations that all of us have experienced - - and will again. The reader is left better-armed for the future grievings that must lie in wait.